Thursday, June 4, 2009

What Makes You Happy?

While sitting at the hospital for a significant amount of time, I'm reminded of just how important our basic needs are and how unimportant our basic desires are. In a comparison of the two, I see the essentials in life are really quite minimal. But don't we have such a wonderful Father in Heaven that not only supplies the essentials but also assures us that our desires are a pleasure for Him to supply as well! Having made that statement, He also works on our hearts in order to make sure our desires are not a harm to our well being.

Do we need alot to live a healthy life? No. Do we need alot to live a happy life? No. Do we desire things we envision will make a better life for us? Of course. What would it really take to make us happy? Would it be a better job, a different spouse, a new house, another vehicle, a different church? I want to choose my words carefully because change is necessary in these areas in some cases, however, in most situations we find that true happiness comes from the depth of the soul. It is encased in our hearts where our expectations either embrace it or shun it. Please stop blaming God if you are unhappy. Its not up to Him to make our lives a great stage play. He longs for us to be happy and content but not at the expense of our maturity. I have been told many times as a child that you don't always get everything you want. Its true and I'm glad because I see that maturity changes our expectations in life, which changes that little thing enclosed deep in our heart...happiness.

Ya know we really don't need much in this life for it to be a great one. So I ask you...what makes you happy?

3 comments:

  1. Michelle...
    I enjoyed reading your blog, thanks for sharing it with me. When Brendon (my 5 year old nephew) died this year I had a really hard time with some stuff and I read a book called "When Bad Things Happen to Good People". It helped me a great deal in realizing that God does not have the power to change our lives. This is not a popular Christian concept, but it makes total sense to me. I have a much better relationship with God now that I see Him as someone who is going through all these struggles with me, not someone who has caused them or could "heal" them if I just prayed hard enough or was a better person.

    Highly recommend the book....it has a perspective that I found refreshing and it gave me a great deal of peace...

    Thanks again for the read :)

    Erin
    www.manykindregards.com

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  2. Michelle,
    That is so true.God is number one in my life.When you get a chance go to my blog and check out my entry on ACN, My Pastor got inot it six months ago.But he waited to make sure its legit.Its not someone asking you to send money.Its a way to pay less on the bills your already paying.Go check it out,Then let me know what you think.
    Sincerly
    JOHN

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